Media personality Do2dtun has weighed in on the recent incident involving popular content creator Peller, who reportedly crashed his car during a live broadcast amid alleged relationship troubles with fellow influencer Jarvis.
Reacting to the incident on X (formerly Twitter), Do2dtun expressed concern over the dynamics of the couple’s relationship, describing it as one built more on interest, fame, and external validation than on genuine emotional connection. According to him, such foundations often lead to unrealistic expectations, unhealthy pressure, and eventual emotional burnout.
Do2dtun warned that relationships driven by public approval and constant validation can quickly become toxic, stressing that young people like Peller and Jarvis should prioritise personal growth and self-discovery. He advised the duo to consider spending time apart in order to make their own mistakes, learn independently, and grow as individuals rather than defining themselves through a relationship constantly under public scrutiny.
Describing the relationship as “cute but toxic,” he noted that without the influence of clicks, public opinions, and online hype, the pair might actually be better off. He further cautioned that fame and money are dangerous tools, especially for young people still navigating life, identity, and responsibility.
In a series of posts, Do2dtun wrote that relationships built on validation often force people to live above their means and satisfy the expectations of strangers, rather than focusing on genuine happiness. He added that when money becomes the primary tool for validation or for sustaining a relationship, it can quickly turn into a self-made cage where being “seen” replaces being truly happy.
He also criticised excessive fan involvement, stating that public pressure and unrealistic expectations amplified by stans can strip young people of their innocence and joy. According to him, many young people make mistakes at that age, but unlike previous generations, fame now amplifies those mistakes on a massive scale.
Do2dtun further called on parents and guardians to set firm boundaries, warning that when children become breadwinners or take on adult roles too early, guidance often disappears. He emphasised that no matter how famous or wealthy a child becomes, they still need structure, discipline, and space to grow.
Concluding his thoughts, Do2dtun described the relationship as non-symbiotic, predicting that one partner may eventually outgrow the other, leading to feelings of being caged or unappreciated. While he did not rule out the possibility of the pair reconnecting in the future, he maintained that for now, they need to live, grow, and discover themselves individually.
“Let a child be a child,” he said, adding that fame is fickle and even adults struggle to handle it—let alone teenagers thrust into the spotlight.
